She is not easily moved by emotional displays and can be curiously detached from her own emotions and those of others.
It is almost as if she could turn her feelings on and off at will; Bai should be careful not to leave the switch "off" too often, for she could easily become too impersonal.
Family relationships and attachments are not as important to her as they are to most people and Ling often considers her friends closer to her than her blood relatives.
Certainly, Ling's sympathy and concern extends much beyond her immediate family.
Denying herself pleasure, comfort, and "nice things" due to feelings of unworthiness can also limit the joy Bai allows herself.
Bai does not appreciate a jealous, possessive partner.Gentle and sensitive, Bai Ling does not like to be approached in a very direct or aggressive manner.She is attracted to those with artistic or mystical inclinations.Bai Ling has a buoyant, cheerful disposition and she reaches out to others in a warm, open and friendly way.
Her emotional generosity and lack of pettiness is well known among her circle of friends, and people often seek Bai out for help, sympathy or advice.
The saying that "true love is hard to find" is certainly true for Bai Ling, but she will value it tremendously when it does come into her life.