That in itself might say something about why your friends seem to suddenly be favoring your ex over you…Look, you’ve already told your friends how you feel about them remaining friendly with your ex, and through their actions they basically told you it’s not your place to tell them who they can or can’t be friends with. Unless their friendship with your ex is directly compromising friendship with them or making your life or breakup much more traumatic than it has to be, you should probably drop it and MOA.You can change cookie preferences; continued site use signifies consent.
Do you really think of your friends as “territory,” or property to be divided in a breakup?
Just because “your” friends didn’t hang out with him one-on-one when you were a couple doesn’t make their friendship with him any less genuine.
If you were their friend first and foremost, and probably the social planner too, then it makes sense that you’d be the go-between.
Sorting Through Your Feelings Coping with Heartache Moving On Community Q&A Having a friend date your crush can be a difficult social situation to navigate.
With your feelings, as well as those of your friend and your crush on the line, it can be extremely difficult to be sure what the right course of action is to take.
Six months ago I broke up with my boyfriend of four and a half years after it became clear to me he had emotionally checked out of our relationship months earlier and had no desire to try to improve things.